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SEP-16-04
12:14:49
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Forum: Prayer Requests and Answers
any future spouse
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reading these submissions makes me understand yet another reason to "pray without ceasing." God our Father does know what is best for us. let us truly pray that God's will be done in our lives, and then let His principles guide us--not our feelings of need.
i relate completely to feeling completely alone and never gonna have that lifemate here on earth--but i cling to the promise that God loves me---loves ME---LOVES me---and will never, ever, ever, answer a prayer that will cause me further harm.
as for the men, don't be desperate! take the first signal of his intentions---that is, when you are FIRST crushed by his words or actions---when you FIRST get that devastated feeling, that sinking sensation,and beware!!! you are entering dangerous territory. PRAY, PRAY, PRAY. such as "dear God, i am so lonely/i like this guy so much/but God, you want the best for me/Your will be done/let me hear Your voice." maybe God's voice is the one saying deep in your heart, no! no! no! no! no! and "oh, no!"
i don't get this whole "let God be your truest love" thing, myself, either, but He says He is, and i must trust Him. so all i do is talk to Him about it---"Lord, i FEEL these things...and You are not here, and You know what kind of HUMAN affection i long for...and it seems to me Your everlasting love is not cutting it for me---but YOU say trust You. Help me to trust You." we can just talk to God, and tell him everything we feel. Can you keep that in mind?
love, and prayers for all of us, r.
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SEP-15-04
1:0:29
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Forum: Prayer Requests and Answers
RE: My Future Spouse
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Dear TeanRoses13,
I'm so sorry that you had to go through all that, with him. I know it's discouraging isn't it? I don't know if its the same guy but boy it sounds like the same person. May I ask [Editor's note: Please take this privately if you wish to pursue these questions.]
I hope you are feeling better!! God is good because he takes you out of your discouragements that the devil does to you, since it is his doing.
And Don't you worry, he will bless you with a much better person. And also, God is a God of justice. He doesn't let the other slide with what they do to people. Even if they are confused, or not sure what they want or isn't ready. I don't think they should be in this site looking for anyone, but looking to God and the rest will fall into place when its time, you know? That's how I see it.
Take care and hang in there, the one will come your way when it's the right time!!
~Blessings~
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SEP-11-04
13:19:47
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Forum: Prayer Requests and Answers
RE: My Future Spouse
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Dear Friend,
I had a very similar situation happen to me on this site. I too have been divorced for 9 years. I joined this site about 6 months ago and met several really nice gentleman. One of whom I thought was my soulmate sent from God!
After the first few emails on the CSD site, we IM'd and talked on the phone daily for hours on end. We made arrangements for me to visit in May, a little over 9 weeks after our 1st email. I was supposed to visit at his town for 3 or 4 days. One the first night, he picked me up from my hotel and we went out to dinner, having what I thought was a great time. The next day he was supposed to meet me at my daughter softball tournament, but called to say there wasn't any physical attraction on his part so I should probably change my plans of visiting his town.
Needless to say I was very hurt and confused and told him I didn't think that he had even given us a change. That night he called and asked to come to my hotel to talk. We talked for about an hour and he asked if I would reconsider my visit to his town. He seemed sincere so I agree to go on with our original plans. We had a fantastic time sharing each others company while praying, antiquing, shopping, cooking, talking and listening to worship music. It was a truly romantic 3 1/2 days. I didnt want to leave and we both confessed that we would really miss each other.
I wanted to turn around at every exit along the 400 miles route home and go back to his home.
When I arrived home we spoke for a few minutes. The next day he started in on the "there is no physical attraction" stuff again and that we should remain close friends. After reluctantly agreeing we continued to email and IM every few days. After a couple of weeks he started asking me to visit again. I had to seriously pray about this as I wasn't looking forward to a repeat performance. He said he had changed his mind and really wanted to see me. That he could very easily fall in love with me. He started telling me he loved me. I was able to make plans and purchase an airplane ticket to visit 4 weeks later. This time I would be staying 6 days. I truly thought God had orchestrated this whole thing for my soulmante and I to meet and fall in love!
Well wouldn't you know it, the morning after I arrived he wanted to take me back to the airport because it "Didn't feel right having me in his house!" We had a huge disagreement because I told him I couldn't believe he was doing this to me yet again. I went for a walk to clear my head and when I returned I finally packed my things to leave. On the drive to the airport we were both in tears. I was very disappointed in his behavior and very anger to say the least! Somewhere on that 20 minuted drive between his house and the airport we decided I should stay. I made it clear that if he pulled this same stunt the next morning I was leaving and he would never hear from me again.
During the trip I met his mother and we spent some time with her. We went on picnics by the lake, evening walks, drives in the mountains, antiquing, etc. We had a wonderful time! He was one of the most considerate and romantic men I have ever met. At the airport we said goodbye and we'd definitely see each other soon. I missed him before I even got on the plane. The next day his daughter arrived from out of state for a visit. We spoke every fews days and his daughter and I got to know each other a little.
Immediately after his duaghters visit he started to pull away. Never coming out and really saying anything just not calling as much or emailing as much. When I questioned him, he said he sometimes got a little moody and distant, but it was nothing to worry about. Ha! I even asked if he had met someone else on the CSD site. He said no he had met anyone at all on the site or otherwise. That was the begining of the end.
Within 4 weeks after the last visit he was only calling every week or so. We'd talk but it was very different on his part, no more sweet names or I miss you's. On August 20 I received a "smile" from him that said, "I wish you well in your search, however, my interests lie elsewhere." Even though I was still in love with him I replied that understood that everyone has to follow their heart and I wished him well, but I hope he didn't discourage his mother from being my friend and writing to me, since her and my friendship had nothing to do with what was or wasn't between he and I. His mother and I had started writing to each other a couple times a week since I met her in June.
Maybe it was the same guy and this is his pattern? Now, I just thank God for bringing me a new friend in his mother. We never mention his name other than in general terms. I don't even know if she knows how her son treated me or what happened between her son & I and I don't plan to ask! His loss, my gain! I know it hurts, but the pain will eventually stop and hopedully you have learned a very valuable lesson as I did.
May God truly bless you this day and every day to come!! In Christ, teanroses13
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JUL-29-04
7:10:10
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Forum: Prayer Requests and Answers
RE: My Future Spouse
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I feel really sorry for you, and I can absolutely understand your situation - as I went through something similar through this site. I met a very nice and dedicated man; we met each other twice in the US, but recently, he made me understood that I do not fit into the picture of his future spouse. I was really hurt, as I thought God had led everything so wonderfully. But we must not forget that HIS ways and thoughts are much higher than our owns. He knows what's best for us - don't be dismayed! I will pray for you.
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JUL-28-04
9:48:13
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Forum: Prayer Requests and Answers
RE: My Future Spouse
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Thank you for your Prayers!! God has answered my prayers in regards to Happiness!! I've been feeling much happier and MUCH better this last week.
God is wonderful like that isn't he.... :o))
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